I don't really understand completely the concept of being humble. I admit, that I talk a lot of trash here at work, and tell people all the time that I will kick there butt. But on the other hand, its something I never ever do in class, because 9 times out of ten, there, it isn't true. Respect, discipline, heart, I understand. It takes a lot of all three to train hard and advance, and it takes a lot of discipline and heart to make time to train out here in the desert. A lot of problem I see with folks younger than myself is that they have never had to work for anything. It all just gets handed to them, so logically, martial arts can just be handed out. Which some are, but fortunately, all of my instructors have put me through my paces. When you take someone who understands the value of hard work, and I use for example my cousin's boyfriend, who I met recently. This young man is 18, involved in judo, and was playing football during the season. He would talk about getting his clock cleaned in Judo, but just going back day after day, and noticing the improvements he was making. The same with my brother, who no one thought was going to stay in Judo, but he did, and now he is a brown belt, which surprises even me. Both I think understand the value of hard work, discipline, and respect. And in the Judo club, you don't disrespect the instructors, because they will literally mop the floor with you. But, the next big thing?...Alien martial arts.
