“If it doesn't work against a completely resisting opponent, we don't train it!”
I am getting a little sick of hearing this unsophisticated remark. This one is so often the new catch-phrase of the youth who have little-to-no understanding as to what it fully means. For most, it is supposed to suggest RBSD-and that is-for you great unwashed…reality based,self defense.
Impressions
Generally, it is supposed to mean that the person/school is the latest, greatest, toughest , no-nonsense place where-if you are man enough-we will have you cage fighting. That is the subliminal, marketing impression isn’t it? The other marketing impression you get, is that everyone else…. isn’t. This is as much as to say, “Finally, we are here to save you.” (Granted, some of the world needs saving from a few lame systems.)
Second, just listen to the very term itself-Reality-based, Self Defense. Is there non-reality based defense? Is this like saying…”we play baseball-baseball?” How very sad it has come to this double-dribble.
But what is the “it?”
“If it doesn't work against a completely resisting opponent, we don't train it!” At its core are very slippery semantics that can cover a lot of things. For example? What is “it?” What is the "it" they talk about that must work against completely resisting opponents? Is "it" a series of steps? Is it just one BJJ move-wrestling "it" for 3 minutes to see if you can do “it?” One Thai kick? Two steps OK? What exactly is this "it?"
Hello?
Mature adults know that if “it” is a series of steps, and one of the first steps is a stunning blow? Hello good Karate! Good Aiki-Jitsu. Good Hapkido and hello to all the other good systems in the world. Sorry, you are not special. It is all supposed to work against a completely resisting person, once he is softened up with a few shots.
No Reality, Reality Drill
BUT, is “it” standing before another person with the sole mission of doing an arm bar hammerlock against a resisting opponent? The two of you grunt and groan. He fights the one move for a full two minutes and you give up and declare, “HA! This does not work against a fully resisting person. Therefore I declare it is no good!” When training with a partner in this “one-on-one” test, you cannot hit him hard enough to make everything work. Therefore, the so-called RBSD drill has …no reality in it.
I have arrested hundreds of people and some have resisted. Some fought. Some have tried to flat-out kill me. In trying to contain/stop them, if I met resistance, I would crack them a few times. Apply as needed. I have broken ribs, noses, hands and a leg. Seemingly impossible grappling techniques magically start working.
(and I must add this right here-practicing to snare grappling moves out of Hubad patterns have greatly improved my savvy and skill to do these things in real life)
RBSD? RBSD is situational. (Now, there is your reality ad line.) In the real world of small conflict, that arm bar is used daily to escort criminals and prisoners, used to detain your drunk brother-in-law at a party, on and on and on. Sometimes you need stunners to make it work, sometimes you don’t. This standard macho, one-on-one/full resistance test (done by many old and new RBSD fighters by the way) simply does not stand a common sense look.
Now, I have explained this to some of these people, and they dance around it, stutter and say, “ahhhh…yeah…the stunning blows…ahh yeah, that’s when it works …ahhh. Against full resistance…ahh, that’s what we meant. Yeah, 'it' is a series of things.”
But I knew damn well they had never thought out their own ad line out. They just ripped it off from some other knucklehead that had never thought his out either. Then there are the people who hear my explanation and deny what I say. They are just stubborn, stupid, or immature in the ways of real-world fighting.
RBSD is situational, requiring lethal and less-than lethal responses with and against hands, sticks, knives and guns. Here is your ad line, Mr. RBSD.
Boxer? Kick Boxer? Cage Fighter? Martial artist? RBSD? Know what you are. Be what you are. When you tell people otherwise you are ignorant if you don’t know, and a liar if you do.
Hock