Hey Marc! I just ordered your DVD on sumbrada, and if it is anything like the silat vids, it will be great! I have always heard and seen other people playing with fakes, 1/2 beat strikes, etc., in sumbrada, but I have not had anyone show exactly how to put them in. Looking forward to getting it!
Now, back to the getting hit subject. My first introduction to the Stick arts was from a crazy Marine (those words should always go together

). My first lesson consisted of, "Okay, here is your numbering system, footwork system, and three basic blocks. Now, put this helmet and these hockey gloves on and lets spar." We were in a hay field on a farm, and I got the snot beat out of me, but I got some good shots in too. I was hooked! Here it is seven years later, and I am still going. Taken a lot of hits too in training and sparring.
The motto that I like is, "If you like your buddy, you hit your buddy!" We are supposed to be preparing each other for combat, and the tendency is to pull shots or aim at the stick instead of the persons head. We do this because we don't want to hurt our friends, and that is a natural tendency. But, if you don't give your friend a realistic reaction, you are not preparing them for the real world.
One way you can tell without pulling the stick away in mid strike as someone is hitting at you, is to start blocking way out away from your body for a few shots. If your partner begins swinging wider to hit your stick, then they are aiming at your stick. If they are aiming at your head, then they will still hit your stick, but it will be a bit weaker block on your half.