WW,
I know you're not trying to teach stick people, because if you were I could throw down the bullshit flag and call you out on it.
What I see from your questions is that you are trying to teach people techniques that you learn off of youtube without fully knowing the context of the technique.
I have done stick chokes on a person, not with the idea of "Hey, I gotta stick, let's see if that choke I learned will work on this drunken idiot." It did work, and left him sore. However, I never practiced it with the idea that I was going to use it on the first moron to decide he wanted to scuffle. I can say, personally, I've learned enough to know that, as Hock says, learning to fight is about problem solving. It's not about adding a technique from youtube to your bag of teaching tools and then going out and showing it students. If you really want students to be prepared, first learn how to problem solve with what you have, and then teach the students how to problem solve.
I'm going to hammer on this point continually. Learn to solve your own problems. It's nice to get input and ask questions, and I would never discourage anyone from doing so. However, it's like the old saying, "Catch a man a fish, feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish, feed him for a lifetime." If you put the time and effort in to develop your tool bag, and then the time and effort to apply those tools to a wider variety of problems and scenarios, you're going to come up with some really cool shit. If you simply keep coming back to the forum and youtube constantly, you're not really going to learn anything.
Problem solve. Solve your problems. Work through them with your training partner. Pick a technique, and figure out what you can do with it, or how to make it work in a given scenario. PROBLEM. SOLVE.
KEnt